Difficulty in connecting with people

I have always been good academically and I have a very prestigious job with one of the leading educational institute in the country.
I have always looked at things from ideal view point and thought extremely.
I find it hard to connect with people and I have a very few friends whom I can trust.
I am not sure how to develop this skill.
I feel empty from inside and feel lonely day in and day out.

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